Wednesday, August 20, 2008

Marriage

They say "love is blind and marriage is an eye opener".This turns out be true in most of the cases. I've seen couples totally smitten by each other when they are dating.Innumerable calls and sms is followed by daily meetings.It's quite impossible to take their eyes off each other and for some ,the world outside their cocoon doesn't exist.Friends and relatives are totally forgotten.Once they get married ,both take each other for granted.Somehow,the insecurity of losing one's partner flies out of the window coz now you know that there are dim chances of falling in love again.Although,some would beg to differ considering the recent amount of divorce cases that have been cropping up.After getting married, you know for sure that at the end of the day,you end up under the same roof.What people fail to realise,it requires immense effort to keep the same spark alive.It doesn't help if you find fault in each other and land up in the counsellor's office.The answer lies beneath and only you can solve the puzzle.Spending some time away in a recluse spot together would definitely strengthen the bond.Small gestures like making one's fantasies come true may ignite the lost touch.The fortunate one's who follow these tips get closer and the lesser fortunate ,Well !!!! ,the lawyers make money out of their misery.